Friday, 5 June 2009

The confusions are milestones.

On such a dull or should I say sleep inducing weather I am as confused as this sentence seems to be.
That reminds me that we are always thrown upon with options in life so that we think and pick one, not that we are always sure of the choice we make. But, we have to pick one to move on. Many would agree that such situations make us feel miserable, mostly because its a choice! That means both have equal +/- points from the individual's perspective. And, we often end up cursing destiny/God/ or whoever we believe controls us. Think twice my dear. Who is responsible for these choices? Who has worked towards all that is happening today? The answer is not blowing in the wind, it surely has but reached your mind. Its YOU. You yourself worked in the past for this present. You made yourself capable enough to receive what you are getting NOW. Good or Bad but you are responsible. 9/10 times both the choices are good, c'mon thats why they are choices. If you have to choose between GOOD or BAD and you have a conscience then I don't see a choice there.
A choice is always between a GOOD and a BETTER, the confusion is which is GOOD and which is BETTER.

Ofcourse, what is required then is an informed decision. But how? No one can predict the future but a decision has to be taken. So what do we do and how? Well, after weighing the pros and cons of each option given, if you still are confused then don't worry. Choose either, because either will be better for you. Now you may have this fear that what if later I realize that the left out option was better!!! Please don't think about what you left out. You left it out after putting in honest(HONEST is the word to save you from any repentance in future) efforts to weigh the pros and cons. A decision has been taken, stick to it, you may have chosen GOOD or BETTER, now be happy - you have a GOAL. You have to make this choice the BEST.

Don't be confused.

Keep d faith...
Karun.

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